Monthly Community Mixer

Next gathering: Oct 24th, 2026 • 2-3:30pm PDT • La Jolla, CA

Come together for guided conversation that invites nuance, depth & connection.

Welcome to the feeling of coming home to something that grows with you.

An opportunity to explore something you’re actively thinking about: your family, your health, what you’re building in this chapter of your life.

Maybe you meditate. You see a therapist. You read. You just don’t have many people in your life you can talk to about any of it without it feeling like a performance or an overshare.

Or perhaps there's a quiet restlessness in you that you can't quite name. You’ve done the therapy, the retreats, the supplements, the breathwork. You’re not looking for the next thing to try. You’re looking for a place to land and a community that doesn’t require you to perform or explain yourself.

The My Lively Community Mixers are vibrant gatherings where well-being isn’t taught but explored through connecting with depth and nuance. We gather every month in an intimate setting to spark conversation and curiosity. These mixers are an invitation to meet like-minded people, expand your perspective, and walk away with both new insights about yourself and meaningful connections.

This is not a fixed program or a prescribed path but a living, evolving community that keeps meeting you where you are. A format that feels intimate and curated, not a conference or a crowd. More than a meetup, these evenings are curated to nourish body and spirit, reminding us that curiosity, community, and healthy dialogue are all part of our well-being.

Together we will connect with spaciousness in a lightly facilitated framework to discover what feels true and valuable to you, and allow for the organic value to emerge.

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Through our time together, we aim to cultivate an experience where you get to:

  • Connect with others who value depth and exploration

  • Engage in a format that allows for real conversation, not just presentation

  • Be yourself in community with other men and women who are operating at the same level of self-awareness without making it their whole personality

  • Explore your inner world in a space that encourages you to express yourself

  • Create meaningful connections that last long after the evening is complete

  • Enjoy discovering and/or challenging your own personal truths and values without someone trying to sell you a prescriptive mindset

  • Walk away with new insights and curiosities that support thriving in your own personal landscape

  • Remember that you are a brilliant, multi-faceted human

INSPIRATION FROM CANDICE IN CURATING THIS EXPERIENCE

  • "I still remember the days I spent searching for holistic experts and fellow well-being seekers. I was navigating the full gamut of personal health challenges, being a mother, the changing tides of life, and what felt like endless isolated seasons. Through all of it, I craved community and connection. I showed up to countless events looking for real conversations about life and what I was experiencing, but I always left feeling partially filled. They were either too prescriptive: "do this like this and you'll be enlightened!" or too surface level with little substance: "everything is good vibes only!". I yearned for more.

    When I dreamt up My Lively Mixers, I pictured intentional and thoughtful gatherings in beautiful spaces with people who sought well-being with depth and nuance, and they didn't have to perform. I envisioned it being a remedy for people who are navigating their own internal questions and challenges in their unique seasons of life. Feeling their own hunger to not go it alone. I committed to myself that at the core of this space, it would always be about gathering together: allowing people to feel heard, hopeful, inspired, and genuinely supported in what they were experiencing."

    I hope you’ll join us and see what’s available for you in this season of your life - to not go it alone - to explore and discover, the My Lively Way.

    Candice

Ticket Info

  • Standard rate: $39

  • Inclusions: access for one guest

  • Location: a private home in La Jolla, CA - address provided upon registration

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